Our Rules

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First and foremost, consent is key—always ensure enthusiastic consent in all interactions.

Phone use is not allowed in shared spaces. If you need to take a call, please step into the front office area.

When stepping outside, dress appropriately—no kink gear or minimal attire. If you need a smoke break, think ‘grandma-approved’ clothing.

Cleanliness is important. If you have an accident for medical reasons, you are responsible for disposing of the mess immediately in the dumpster.

Respect is non-negotiable. No bigotry, no slurs, and we keep political discussions out of this space so everyone can enjoy a break from the outside world.

For your safety and the comfort of others, keep SFW spaces SFW—dark play is only allowed in designated rooms. Public areas must remain nudity-free, and curtain rules must always be followed.

Proper disposal is required. Diapers should only go in designated trash cans—not in bathroom bins or sanitary disposals.

If you use a bed, change the sheets afterward and place the used ones in the hamper.

Lastly, hard limits apply—no gold, brown, or Roman showers. All fluids must stay in diapers.

 You must be 19+ years old to use and access this server or attend public and private group events.  By clicking the button below, you acknowledge and confirm that you are of legal age to access this adult-only server. Violators will immediately and permanently be banned.

DO NOT use the @everyone mention without LEAP board approval.

DO NOT directly DM a person without their consent first. You may message LEAP Board members about an issue or question, but it needs to be concerning LEAP. If you have already established consent, please remember that a person can rescind that

 Listen to Staff - If you feel a moderator is treating you unfairly, do what they ask or leave the discord channel before contacting an admin.

 Keep political in ⁠temp-political  there is no debate in  the political chats. It is only for information and discussions. If you can't keep it civil then we will just remove you from that channel 

Keep all sexual content in NSFW channels

Keep messy diaper pics in the ⁠diapers-messy channel. Some of our members are uncomfortable with that content.

No drama or harassment will be tolerated - If you have a disagreement with somebody, please take it to DMs or contact a staff member to help moderate the situation.

Don't feed the trolls - Trolls are here to get a reaction from you, do not engage them. Even if you think you're a "badass" who can "troll the trolls" you are not. Contact a staff member so they may handle the situation appropriately.

No spam or advertising - This includes chat or voice, and any messages or noises that are repetitive, cut up, or intentionally difficult to read/understand (this includes some baby talk), as well as advertisements for any website, service (including dom services), or store that you or a friend are involved with. If you are unsure if your message is advertising, please consult with a staff member before posting it.

Please try to avoid people's triggers. It's inevitable that somebody's going to say something that bothers somebody else; just try to avoid those words or topics when you're made aware of them

Please no "looking for" posts although the Board wants everyone to build relationships, be happy, find true love, etc… please understand that LEAP is not an AB/DL dating or matchmaking service. Many couples have met within LEAP, and many members have joined as a couple, but we are not starting a channel devoted to finding a caregiver, baby, sub, slave, etc… and DO NOT ASK.

Make sure to go to the ⁠introductions channel and make an introduction so people can learn a bit about you. You must include your age in the introduction. Failure to do so may result in being kicked from the server. 

We reserve the right to remove or demote any members from the server if they break our rules. 

Additionally Visit the ⁠optional-roles  channel to assign pronouns and other roles. You can also choose to see NSFW chat options there.